Where and how do I order a "grandmother's help" service after childbirth in Brazil?
"Grandmother's Aid" is a service that implies care and support for the family, primarily the woman and the newborn, by an experienced person who helps with daily activities, childcare and household matters.
It becomes especially in demand if the family does not have any relatives around to take on such responsibilities.
Core Functions:
Newborn care. Assistance in feeding, bathing, diaper changing.
Maternity support. Cooking, cleaning, helping to recover from childbirth.
Caregiving tips. "Grandma" is often a person with experience (e.g., having raised her own children), so she can give advice on issues related to the child and motherhood.
Psychological support. A new mom may feel lonely or overwhelmed, and a "grandmother" can offer emotional support.
In Brazil, the "grandmother's help" service can be organized as part of a professional service for mothers and newborns. This is especially important for foreign women who come to the country to give birth and are unable to invite their relatives.
Professional help. This service is often provided by agencies, hiring qualified staff with experience working in families with infants. Some "grandmothers" have medical experience (nurses, midwives) or have been trained in infant care.
Cultural differences. "Grandmother" can familiarize the foreign woman with Brazilian traditions related to child care and postpartum recovery (e.g., eating habits, rest routines). It may be necessary to adapt to the client's expectations if cultural sensitivities differ.
Flexibility. The service can be full-time, scheduled (e.g., a few hours a day), or on an "on-call" basis.
Pregnant foreign women. Who come to Brazil early and need support in the last stages of pregnancy.
Foreign-born women. Especially if they have no family or friends in the country.
Families with children. The service can be useful for parents who are already raising children and need help with a newborn.
Through agencies. Most agencies such as BabyinBrazil provide vetted helpers with references. The staff may speak English, Spanish or other languages, possibly yours, which makes communication easier.
Direct search. Through recommendations from local people or specialized platforms. It is important to interview in person to verify experience and qualifications.
Specifics of working with foreign women. The "grandmother" should take into account the client's cultural peculiarities, preferences in child care and nutrition. It is possible to work in tandem with an interpreter if the language barrier remains a problem.
Cost of the service. In Brazil, the cost depends on the qualifications of the "grandmother", the work schedule and the volume of tasks. The average price varies from 200 to 500 BRL per day (about $40-100).
Conditions. Flexible schedules are often offered: hourly, full-time or live-in. Additional duties (cooking, cleaning) are negotiated in advance.
Stress reduction. Helps you adapt to your new environment and focus on motherhood.
Emotional support. Feeling of care and presence of "family". Significantly reduces the possibility of postpartum depression and other postpartum psychological disorders.
Practical help. Saves time on household tasks and is a huge help with childcare.
Safety. Professional "grandmothers" are trained to work with infants, which is especially important for inexperienced mothers. Not only do they provide invaluable assistance, but they also provide training and education to young mothers on newborn care, such as breastfeeding instruction.
"Grandma's Help" in Brazil is the ideal option for international women who need caring, professional support during pregnancy and after childbirth. It is a combination of practical help, emotional support and a unique experience that makes the motherhood period more comfortable.
Doula and grandmothering services differ in purpose, function, qualifications, and approach to supporting the pregnant woman and the young mother.
Let's look at their key differences:
Doulas:
Professionally accompany pregnant women and women in labor before, during and after childbirth.
They help emotionally and physically: they support breathing, offer relaxation techniques, massage, and give advice on breastfeeding.
Have specialized training and up-to-date knowledge of childbirth and women's recovery.
Focus on psycho-emotional support, creating a comfortable atmosphere for the mother.
Grandma:
Helps from personal experience and family affection, supporting mentally and physically.
Performs household tasks: takes care of the child, helps around the house, prepares meals, keeps things in order.
Shares care and parenting tips, but often relies on traditional, sometimes outdated methods.
Her help is unskilled and more intuitive in nature.
Doulas:
Receive specialized training and certification in labor support and postpartum care.
Knowledgeable in the physiological processes of pregnancy and childbirth, pain management, relaxation and rehabilitation techniques.
Utilize proven techniques and recommendations based on current medical and psychological knowledge.
Grandma:
She has no special education and acts on her own experience of raising children.
May not be familiar with current approaches to newborn care and techniques recommended by pediatricians.
Doulas:
Provide neutral and professional support, taking into account the mother's emotional state and needs.
Listen to the woman without criticism, respecting her decisions about childbirth, breastfeeding and child care.
Help you overcome fears and anxieties during pregnancy and postpartum.
Grandma:
Provides emotional support on a personal level, often expressing his love and concern.
May impose her views and advice, which sometimes causes conflict or stress for the young mother.
Grandmother's intervention may be excessive and contrary to the family's preferences.
Doulas:
Work by arrangement and pre-arranged schedule.
Their services are paid, so their work is clearly structured and professional.
Grandma:
Helps to the best of his ability and need.
Her help is unstructured and she acts on her own and not always in accordance with her mother's requests.
Doulas:
Support the woman during labor: help control breathing, choose comfortable positions, create a calm atmosphere.
In the postpartum period, the Doula helps to establish breastfeeding, recover physically and emotionally.
Grandma:
In labor, as a rule, does not participate in the birth and waits for its completion.
Postpartum helps with the baby and household chores, which makes life easier for the young mom, but may not take into account her emotional needs.
Experience and expertise
A Doula is trained and is a specialist, while a
Grandma has personal experience and intuition.
Focus of work
The Doula provides physical and emotional support, and
Grandma's help is practical help in the home.
Modern approaches
Doulas use proven techniques,
grandmothers stick to traditional methods
Emotional involvement
Doulas adhere to neutral, respectful support, a
grandmothers stick to family affection and try to give advice.
If you need professional emotional support during pregnancy, childbirth and beyond, choose a Doula.
If family help and domestic support is needed, it's best to rely on your grandmother.
Ideal: combine a Doula for professional support and a grandmother for practical help and family comfort.
Housekeeper and granny help services differ in a number of criteria: functionality, emotional involvement, and approach to tasks.
Let's examine these differences in detail:
Housekeeper:
Performs specific household tasks: housekeeping, laundry, ironing, cooking, and housekeeping.
May also engage in childcare, but within the specific guidelines she is given.
Its duties are formal and defined by contract or verbal agreement.
Grandma:
Provides all-round assistance: caring for the child, helping with cooking and cleaning, giving emotional support to the mother.
Her care is often personal and her actions are based on her own experiences.
Can nurture and educate a child by passing on family traditions, values and the culture of the environment in which she was raised.
Housekeeper:
Performs duties in a neutral and professional manner.
Does not carry an emotional connection to the family; her help is strictly functional.
Works on a schedule and does not interfere with the family's personal affairs.
Grandma:
Deeply emotionally involved in the life of the child and the whole family.
Her help is often accompanied by advice and her own views on parenting.
May show severe anxiety and react emotionally to situations with the child or mother.
Housekeeper:
Works on a predetermined schedule (daily, once a week, or as needed).
Willing to perform only agreed upon duties and additional tasks may require renegotiation of fees or terms.
Assistance is a paid service that depends on the family's budget.
Grandma:
Provides assistance as needed, often without time constraints.
Can sacrifice his time and personal affairs for the child and the mother.
Housekeeper:
Usually has professional cleaning and housekeeping skills.
When hiring for childcare, experience working with children or basic knowledge of childcare may be required.
Grandma:
Draws on her own parenting experience, which can be both useful and outdated.
Doesn't always have up-to-date knowledge of child care, safe nutrition, and educational techniques.
Housekeeper. There may be a lack of emotional connection with the child and mother. Her help is limited to time and specific functions.
Grandmother. May impose her own views on the child's upbringing and everyday life. Help may be less structured and less organized.
If a family needs professional help with household chores or childcare on a strict schedule - choose a housekeeper.
If emotional support and help based on personal connection and experience is needed - grandma's help will be a more valuable resource.
A housekeeper is a formal worker who provides specific services for payment. A grandmother is a family helper who acts out of love and affection, but may bring her own views and emotional nuances to the helping process.
BabyinBrazil provides a service called "Grandma's Help", focused on supporting foreign women who come to Brazil to give birth. We understand how important it is to surround the expectant mother and her family with care, especially when it is not possible to invite loved ones.
Before the birth:
Emotional support. Our "grandmother" helps to reduce the stress of the mom-to-be, offers advice on preparing for childbirth, adapting to the new environment and setting up domestic life in Brazil.
Home preparation. Help in creating a comfortable atmosphere: organizing the baby's room, preparing things for the maternity ward, cleaning, helping with shopping and preparing healthy food.
Accompaniment at doctor's appointments. If necessary, the "grandmother" accompanies the expectant mother to the clinic, helping with organizational issues.
Postpartum:
Help with the newborn. Support in the first days and weeks: help with bathing, changing diapers, feeding and caring for the baby.
Care for mom. Taking care of her recovery after childbirth: preparing nutritious meals, ensuring comfortable rest, helping her to organize her day.
Psychological support. "Grandma" will become a person with whom you can discuss worries, ask for advice or just talk.
For the family:
Caring for older children. If there are already children in the family, the "grandmother" helps to organize their leisure time and maintain their daily routine.
Domestic help. Organizing cleaning, preparing meals for the whole family, helping with shopping and small errands.
Professionalism and care. All of our helpers are carefully screened, have experience working with families with newborns, and understand the specifics of caring for mom after delivery.
Culturally sensitive. We take into account your preferences in nutrition, childcare and household chores. Our "grandmother" can adapt her work to your habits and lifestyle.
Support in your own language. An interpreter is available if needed to ensure full understanding between you and your "grandmother".
Flexibility and availability. You can choose the format of work: Full-time with accommodation, Hourly work, On-call work.
Trust and safety. All our "grannies" are vetted, have references and medical certificates of health.
Making a dietary plan for the mom. Based on the recommendations of a doctor or nutritionist.
Organization of leisure activities. If you want to visit local attractions or go shopping, our "grandmother" will help with childcare while you are away.
Baby Care Training. For young moms, "Grandma" will give a small master class on the basic aspects of baby care.
Steps:
Contact BabyinBrazil. Contact us via website, messenger or phone.
Consultation. We will discuss your needs, expectations, and create a work plan.
Specialist selection. You will be offered the candidate who best meets your needs.
Getting Started. After agreeing on all the terms and conditions, our "grandmother" begins her duties.
We offer several packages that are customized to fit your schedule and budget.
Long-term cooperation or comprehensive packages (e.g. including clinic escort, transfer, interpreter services) are available at discounted rates.
BabyinBrazil's Grandma's Help service provides:
Peace of mind for mom and family.
Quality child care.
Stress reduction and quick adaptation in a new country.
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If you would like to try to find and book Grandma's Help yourself, there are several ways to do this in Brazil.
Babysitting service sites. Use platforms like Care.com or Babysits where you can find nannies and au pairs with experience with newborns.
Social networks and groups. Look for Russian-speaking groups on Facebook or Telegram, where there may be offers of help from acquaintances or recommendations from other moms.
Freelance platforms. Check out freelancing sites like Upwork or Fiverr where you can find people offering childcare help.
Domestic help agencies. Some agencies provide child care services, including ads for "grandma's help." Make sure the agency has good reviews.
Local classifieds. Explore local message boards on forums or in newspapers. Often there you can find offers from people looking for jobs as helpers.
Recommendations from friends and acquaintances. Ask around and see if anyone can recommend a trusted person.
Be sure to discuss all terms and expectations before you begin your collaboration to find the best fit.
If you have any questions and want to clarify them, then contact our consultant in the feedback form (form link or form below) or on WhatsApp (phone number) and get a free consultation.
This consultation does not oblige you to anything, and you can continue your search for a granny help service on your own, taking into account the knowledge you have gained from us.